For many years, our staff had opportunities to read children’s essays about their dads, and then interview some of the dads related to our Father of the Year Essay Contests. The contests gave kids opportunities to write about their dads, and we were always amazed at the remarkable, heartfelt things they’d write. We probably don’t pass along the great essays often enough.
As you might know, our purpose is to inspire and equip dads. But this essay by Abigail, a 6th grader, is pure inspiration. She does a wonderful job of capturing the love and appreciation kids feel for their dads, like what your child surely feels for you. Maybe this will inspire and motivate you as a dad, or maybe help you recommit yourself to be the father your children really need. Soak this in today.
My dad is a short, stubby man, but his smile goes from the east to the west. He makes really, really bad jokes, but we always laugh. He acts sometimes, [imitates] singers, and even tries to dance. But he makes his imitations really bad on purpose to make us laugh. He laughs at things I say even if they’re not meant to be funny. That makes me laugh.
My dad has all the qualities of a great guy. He’s so truthful, honorable, and trustworthy. I can always count on him. He even understands what I’m talking about most of the time.
My dad sees everyone for who they are. He won’t judge people but always learns their personalities first. He helps people he doesn’t know, and he’s always nice to strangers. My dad is kind and always helpful.
My dad is awesome, fantastic, and phenomenal. I love my dad. He’s far from perfect, but far past amazing.
Now, this might also humble you as a dad, for two reasons:
First, it’s a reminder that our kids are always watching us. They see the good and the not-so-good in our lives. They know we’re far from perfect. And we never know what will register in their minds as significant or even life-changing. That’s the power and the great responsibility of our modeling.
And second, this should draw out the best in you as a dad. Like Abigail’s father, we make a difference when we make our kids laugh, show kindness to people, and prove ourselves to be trustworthy. Our general disposition has a powerful effect on our children—whether they are tiny infants or teens whom we may have to look up to. Be a joyful father, and let it show!
Fatherhood is a high calling, and something to live up to. Find ways to be “far past amazing” for your kids today.
Action Points for Dads on the Journey
- Do something crazy to have fun with your kids and make them laugh. Do karaoke. Start a water fight, or a pillow fight, or a food fight! Play dress up. Have a whistling contest after eating saltine crackers. Use your own idea. (Then let us know how it went.)
- Write an essay about how much you appreciate each of your children, and show it to them (or save it for Father’s Day, Christmas, their birthday, whichever comes first).
- What would your children say is your biggest weakness as a dad? (If you don’t know, ask them!) Be intentional about working on that area during the next month … and beyond.
- How do you treat restaurant servers and other people in service positions during day-to-day interactions? Remember, your children are always watching and learning.
- Come up with a “Father’s Day wish list” that includes a lot of activities with family and gifts of time—along with or instead of expensive gadgets.
What challenges you about this essay? Or, when have you been inspired or challenged as a dad because of something your child said or wrote to you? Please let us (and other dads) know by leaving a comment on our Facebook page.