Father’s Day: Redefining Your Role

Who defines your role as a father?

Around Father’s Day, we see all kinds of stereotypes about dads. Maybe you’ll receive a card with a joke about neckties, grilling, tools or golf. Maybe one or more of those apply to you, and maybe the joke will even be clever.

It’s similar to the information that’s updated most years in June by the Census Bureau. They put out helpful statistics on the numbers of fathers who are married, single, stay-at-home, grandfathers, and so on, as well as how many take leave from work after a child’s birth. And they include statistics that go along with much of the greeting card industry, focusing on common men’s interests like electronics, hardware, cars, sporting goods, and more. You can see more here and here.

How do you define what a father is? What are dads about?

On a more serious side, quite often a dad’s role is defined based on what he saw in his own father, and may be strongly influenced by the expectations of his children’s mother—and it is vitally important to take all that into account.

Through the years, court cases have also dealt with similar questions. At a time when divorce is common and family situations are increasingly complex, they have had to ask, What makes a father? In many situations, fatherhood is being defined as a verb even more than as a noun. Fathers are recognized for their presence and their actions on behalf of children more than for their biological connections.

Now, we believe the position of father is an honorable one. We can take pride and gain motivation simply because we are fathers, and that “office” carries with it some dignity and influence. But sitting in an office of honor doesn’t always mean we’re acting honorably. Biology doesn’t always provide the best fathers; the most devoted dads are not necessarily biological ones.

So, dad, what about you?

If you had to defend your role as a father based on your actions and your connections with your kids, and not on genetics, would your case hold up? Are you sitting in the easy chair, behind your phone or your remote control? Or are you on the floor mixing it up with your kids, at the kitchen table helping with homework, on the sidelines at the field to support your young athlete no matter what … and everywhere in between?

This Father’s Day, recommit yourself to fatherhood as a verb. Give a little more time and energy to your kids. Focus on listening more. Savor every hug and “Thanks, Dad.” And keep up the good work.

What’s one area in which you’d like to improve as a dad in the “new year” of your fathering? Share your thoughts and encourage other dads on our Facebook page.

Action Points & Questions for Reflection and Discussion

  • How is your fathering role different from and similar to how your dad lived it out?
  • How do you hear fathers talked about in your circle of friends and family? Is it positive?
  • From a broad perspective, the “state of fatherhood” is not great. Find a way to make a difference in your corner of the world by investing in another dad or a child who needs a dad.
  • As you’re enjoying Father’s Day, find ways to bless and affirm each of your kids as well.
  • Do you want your kids to honor you for many years to come? Show them how by honoring your dad or another significant father figure in your life.

Watch the replay of the Fathering Breakthrough Event

Join Dr. Ken Canfield and a handful of friends and partners as we give an update about our efforts to inspire and equip fathers all over the world.

There may be no more important work than turning the hearts of fathers to their children, and that’s what this is all about. We’re seeking to repair, rebuild and restore effective fathering for the benefit of children and families everywhere.

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